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Trying to conceive...or not?

Anonymous
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My dh and I have been TTC our third child for 4years. We finally saw a doctor and this cycle I started metformin and clomid. The clomid was pure hell (and starting the metformin was no picnic either). But I kept telling myself it was going to be worth it.

Yesterday (day 18) I start having ovulation pain, which was later than my doc expected. We did the deed on days 10,12,14 and 16, but if I didn't ovulate until day 18, that wouldn't matter. But last night he says he's "too tired" for sex and same thing tonight. I went through hell on the clomid and he can't even suck it up and give me a 2 minute quickie so it wasn't for nothing?

Yes I realize I sound like a petty idiot complaining her husband won't have sex with her but I'm still pissed.
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 9, 2013 at 12:01 AM
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TrouserMouse
by on Mar. 9, 2013 at 12:26 AM

I would be pissed too.  When you are TTC and have fertility issues, everyone needs to sacrifice for it to be successful.  Asking him or a deposit when the timing is right isn't too much to ask.

catrig
by Silver Member on Mar. 9, 2013 at 12:17 PM
I would be pissed as well. Try talking to him when you calm down.
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by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 9, 2013 at 12:59 PM

The side effects were terrible to read on the med site, ugh.

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