My mom and I have always been best friends, like sisters and extremely close.
Over the last few years my dad has had to work overseas, around the same time he moved overseas I moved in with my now husband.
My mom now goes out a lot, teaches a gym class and works out all the time. She shows interest in my life and my sons life but not nearly as much as I thought she would. If she has something else going on she's more inclined to do that than be with her husband, me or my son(her grandson). I am sure I know why she is going through this. She was a sahm and we were her life.. Everyone left at the same time and now she is living her own life and focusing on herself.. But it's drastic. She now acts conceded and acts as if she is most important. I try to have a conversation with her and all she says is "yeahhhh" and "ooohhhhhh" nothing and quickly changes the subject to her classes, her students or her friends. I'm at the point now where I want to say something to her but don't know how. I don't know how to approach her without her getting upset and her feelings hurt. I'm heartbroken.. She's not my mom anymore.