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I HATE KIDS' BM!

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

She doesn't take care of her children. She dresses them in ill fitting clothes and doesn't bathe them regularly. She also abuses them. We have called CPS and they will not do a thing. The school counselor is also aware and won't do anything. The eldest has been urinating in her pants when she is over there. We have asked for more custody...I coach their cheerleading, we pay for EVERYTHNG (health, school, etc) and she does not. And we are not allowed to have more custody and cannot afford a huge court battle. The system is broken, yo. 

Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 4, 2013 at 9:01 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 7, 2013 at 1:01 PM
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I absolutely appreciate the support but get off the grammar.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 7, 2013 at 1:04 PM
The girls are 5 and 6 and we document everything. Texts, emails, pictures, odd things, etc.

Quoting 0oSamanthaKayo0:

Have you documented everything. Pictures of marks/bruises. How old are the kids?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Apr. 7, 2013 at 1:12 PM
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For those scrutinizing her for her last statement having the word "yo", are EXACTLY what this woman is talking about. People rather focus on education, grammar, personal appearance, race, ethnic backgrounds , and what have you of the person seeking help rather then focusing on the issue. There are two innocent children being neglected and possibley abused & you're worried about ONE word?
You're all mothers for Christ sake, cut the crap & put yourself in the OP's place. How you feel if you were seeking help for children, your children even no matter the situation and were treated like a dog all because of one word?

Anyway OP can the father of the kids go to court & request a re evaluation of custody due to the situation? CPS won't work as fast of you just call them . Call the police department, things will get done a lot faster. Ask them to do a wellness check. They will contact CPS immediately.
fullxbusymom
by Bronze Member on Apr. 7, 2013 at 1:16 PM

Well what are you calling abuse exactly that no one is listening to you about?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 7, 2013 at 1:33 PM
Clothes that are dirty snd too small. .. the girls wearing makeup to school and staying up until midnight on school days and other things. We are researching other options. We just don't want to traumatize the girls with police.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Apr. 7, 2013 at 1:35 PM
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Police are trained to handle them with care. My brother and father are police officers, they have been trained for situations like this.

Quoting Anonymous:

Clothes that are dirty snd too small. .. the girls wearing makeup to school and staying up until midnight on school days and other things. We are researching other options. We just don't want to traumatize the girls with police.
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