Is that too much to ask for? We don't talk at all. If I'm upset, he doesn't really care. If I'm sad, he doesn't ask why. If I try talking to him about my feelings, he just shuts me out. Its like I'm a nobody to him. We were so happy in the beginning and there was so much going on in my life. He was so supportive and always there for me. I lost several close family members and close friends, my son went through some major scary health problems, and he was there. I don't even know this person I am married to anymore. He says I have pushed him away and that its my fault. BUt I just want my best friend back.