Now, I am not normally a nosy person but it just really pisses me off when people have kids and then don't want to take care of them. I just found out that my husband's cousin is like 4 or 5 months pregnant with her SECOND child. She can't take care of the one she has. She is ALWAYS pawning him off on other people. She's stayed with us 2 times. And each time, my father in law had to practically FORCE her to get off her ass and take care of her kid.
The second time she stayed with us, the poor boy would follow me around until I fixed him some food. He's a year and four months old now and the only thing I ever saw her give him was tea, milk, or water. I NEVER saw her feed that poor child. I fixed his breakfast, shared my lunch with him, and even had to share MY dinner with him because she refused to. She even asked me what the f*** I was doing feeding her kid. I snapped at her that "someone has to feed him because your sure as hell aint gonna do it." She got so pissed at me that she knocked my plate of food on the floor, practically ripped her kid off my lap, and stormed outside.
This last time she stayed with us, my father in law told her that if she didn't start taking care of her kid, he was gonna call the cops on her and have her charger with child neglect. They got into this huge argument and she left.
Why on earth does she want another kid when she doesn't want to take care of the one she's got?! She's got no job, no husband/boyfriend, and sleeps around...a lot. The father of her first kid? The man who went to jail for "molesting" her when she was twelve. When I found that out, I just could not believe it.