Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

The Venting Booth The Venting Booth

"Don't leave your baby with me please"

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
  • 59 Replies
5 moms liked this

Okay, so, I am a single mom of 2. One boy who is 6 and a girl who is 4 1/2 months old.

I take the everywhere because, well, I have no help. X-DH lives in Miami  My family is well, non existent. 

Well , I had to go to the bank to put the income tax return into different savings accounts for the kids for their college funds which I had to go in those small offices to sit and speak with a bank employee.

After 10 mins, DS had to use the bathroom, I excused myself got up to move to let DS up, but I had to get up out of my seat and by the door to let him out of his seat, before I can even walk two inches back to get the stroller the woman says "UM Don't leave your baby with me thanks, I know how being a young mom is hard, but this isn't a daycare."  I am 25 mind you.

I just replied "Excuse me?" and she repeated herself with a condescending smile.. So I reply "I'm well aware as to where I am and wouldn't leave my kids with a random stranger, and nor will I be leaving my money with you either." Took my checks of her desk and closed my accounts and switched banks.

Yeah I know a little dramatic on my part but yano what I want my money where I will be respected yano?

What a jerkface! 

Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 24, 2013 at 9:17 AM
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Replies (1-10):
dstarr347
by Member on Apr. 24, 2013 at 9:38 AM

I don't blame you! I would have done the same thing. Wow!

Ilaynasmommy
by Member on Apr. 24, 2013 at 10:53 AM
1 mom liked this
I would have done the same. Ppl working with the public need to learn that's where their paycheck comes from.
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
WillsMOM72
by on Apr. 24, 2013 at 11:19 AM
Wow, that was rude of her. I would've asked to speak to a manager about her behavior. I wouldn't have changed banks just over that. I've been with my bank over 10 years.
hollydaze1974
by on Apr. 24, 2013 at 11:23 AM
I'm very impressed with your handling of the situation.
ColleenF30
by Lube Girl on Apr. 24, 2013 at 11:29 AM

I think you handled that quite well.

othermom
by Member on Apr. 24, 2013 at 11:39 AM

You handled it well

MissTacoBell
by Taco Bell Princess on Apr. 24, 2013 at 11:40 AM
Damn straight!
kerryket
by Gold Member on Apr. 24, 2013 at 11:51 AM
Yeah, that would be it for me.
CotterpinDoozer
by Bronze Member on Apr. 24, 2013 at 12:22 PM

I think you handled it really well, I'd have closed my accounts too.

AV made by NiamhWitch

MomInATreeStand
by on Apr. 24, 2013 at 1:51 PM
I would have done the same as well. Kudos to you for the way you handled it!!!!
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)