My DF and I have been TTC our 1st for just about a year now. While all our friends are either TTC and get pregnant no problem, some are having babies and others are planning on their 2nd or third and which I am very happy for all of them but I feel its not fair. Why cant it be used. I am on meds because I have PCOS and it is hard to TTC. I look at our sister in law and brother in law who have had 3 miscarriages and are finally pregnant with the 1st boy of the family and I am praying that this lil bean sticks. She also has PCOS and nevr got her AF and with the help of meds got pregnant the third time. I look at her and say mircles happen everyday. We both want to start our family and it seems like everyone else can but us.