Can Husbands have female best friends and go out solo with them?
In a nutshell; Here is my situation.
We have been married almost a year. We met at age 15 in the debate club. Everyone was friends in the group. We never dated at that time. We found each other in our twenties start dating and three years later married with child number two on the way.
My husband has a female friend name (Susan) who was in the debate program with us. There friendship has always been close. They went to each others prom. She calls him her bestie. She is also married (Currently going through a divorce) Recently she attended our baby shower. Me and her keep in contact. Just mom talk. I have no personal problems with and I see her as a friend. Our children even have play dates. Usually my husband takes my son to her house for the play dates; since I'm pregnant it gives me a break. (i'm a SAHM)
She attended my babyshower. We even talk then. The day after our baby shower; she texted my husband asking him if he wanted to go to the movies with her. He told me about the text. (He was at work at the time) The movie started at 2:40pm. I said no problem. You can go. I trust him and I know her.
As I was browsing facebook (He left at 2:30) 15 minutes after he left she post on her fb status at 2:45pm "I Feel Sexy."
It rubbed me the wrong way. Maybe the timing knowing she was with my husband. He came home. Didn't say anything about the movie. Didn't take a shower. He brought me home some food. He got in about 6. The movie was 2 hrs long.
Now i'm questioning if she sees my husband as more than just a friend because of what she is going through?