STBX MIL and the rest of the family are on C/M. And I really DON'T need to deal with them, so any input would be appreciatated
Quick Break down
1. After cheating on our marriage multiple times, DH walked out on me & kids. Yet, he continued to pay mortgage. So it is NOT considered abandonment. Two months ago he decided that he was 'fed up with' having t o support two house holds so the house was sold, and I had to find a new place to live.
2. Before DH left, I have been out of the job market for nearly 10 years. Two kids born, ! was Dx'ed with MS
3. I found a job, been working (A LOT), but EVERY cent that I make goes to paying bills, and often times I am short. DH does NOT help His idea of helping is to tell me what I'm not doing that I need to be doing
1. I applied for SS. It's about the medical bills. The last time that I went to the pharmacy w/o his insurance card, I was told that the meds would cost $5,000 ~ BIG YIKES!!
2. Since DH refuses to help out, I applied for and recieved F/S to keep food on the table for the family.
3. In the state that I am in, they figure out child support based on salary. If you earn 20% of what hubs makes, then he will pay 80% of the chlld care cost. STBX DH feels that his obligation to pay supporrt to me, or the kids should be contingent- upon my getting disability