My best friend...love her dearly has 2 kids that as she claims are "gifted". They don't sleep at night. She can't do anything without yelling at them to "stop" they never sit still etc. they are 5 and 3 almost 4. Aside from their minor health issues where they're not completely toilet trained having to use bathroom constantly, the have no friends at preschool and are socially inept. I tell her she needs to have a Nuero eval the kids are ADHD and she says she can't handle it if her kids are "special Ed" wth?? As a friend what do I do to get her to step up as a parent??