"So much to say today! It brings tears to my eyes to see the amazing father that (tag husband) is to our girls! You are so good to us & I will spend my life grateful that fate brought us together..." goes on to recognize my dad, my FIL, then... "To (ex & exFIL) - thank you, two men who are at the route of one of the most precious things in my life - my first born - (daughter tagged) & I cant forget an awesome step Poppi (ex's stepfather). Happy Father's Day to all 3 of you as well - I have not forgotten you three just because I have moved on in my life." Goes on to wish all my father friends happy day...
Supposedly the crux of my poorly chosen words is that I referred to "our girls"..
Am I really missing the big deal here? I thought I was being nice & conscientious to include my ex & his dad, but maybe next year I can just post "to the man who begged me to abort his child, pushed me down a flight of stairs when I was pregnant, punched me in the stomach & told the divorce judge he did not want visitation - Happy Father's Day & thanks for finally stepping up w/HALF of your weekly ordered cs yet you have every gizmo & gadget out there & thanks for playing the "cool dad" role for the most recent 4 years of your daughter's 12 years of life - & all those years you racked up $80k in STILL unpaid cs - no worries - its all good.