Dating a separated man and the fiasco that followed
For the past 2 years I have been dating a man who is in the process of finalizing his divorce. This is something I was apprehensive about getting involved in, but he did seen like a wonderful guy. When we met he had been separated for over a year and said he would be divorced in 6 months. Two years later, and he's still not divorced. I don't believe there's any funny business going on, but also no rush to wrap things up. For the past year of our relationship, he would not sleep at my house, we only had sex about once a month, the dates had stopped, and I was begging to go to concerts or on trips together and always came up empty handed. I felt used and neglected and ended up taking a break from him a few months ago. I began to see an old flame, which he knew about. He just found out, at the same time that he shaped up and decided that he really wanted the relationship, that I had slept with my old fling. Now I am the bad guy and he's devastated. I'm so fed up! If he hadn't neglected our relationship in the first place, it would have never happened. Am I in the wrong here?!