See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
I ran into an ex employee who used to work for my ex husband and I. He heard that we got divorced (been 6 years already) and says "What happened to the baby you adopted with so and so? Did you guys give him back or does so and so still see him?" REALLY?? I laughed in his face and said "a child is not a puppy, you don't RETURN them when things don't work out!". I said , it's just like a divorce when you have biological child, you get child support and visitiation. He looked utterly surprised....lol. Amazing what people think about adopted children....
** Not that I NEED to explain this, but for those of you crticizing me for being divorced- my child IS growing up in a 2 parent household. His stepdad has been more of a Father in the five years he has been a part of his life than my ex has been in TEN years, My now husband attends every sporting event, every school event, does homework with him every single night, they go on fishing trips together. My ex has been to ONE soccer game in 4 years and ONE school concert. Work was and still is always more important than our son...which is ONE of the BAZILLION reasons we are divorced**