I can honestly, whole-heartedly, without a doubt, say that my husband wouldnt cheat on me...on us! But he has been showing tell tale signs of "something" suspicious. He left for work tonight at 12:00 with the reasoning his boss moved a deadline and he had no choice. He said hed be gone acouple hours. When i was pregnant 4 months ago he left the house frequently to run random short errands...buying a pop, running an errand for parents,etc. Even at times ive argued to go with him he refused. He would leave sometimes 5-6 times a day. We would be on our way home from somewhere. Get home and hed say he was gonna go get a pop. Id say were still in the car well just go with you. Hed refuse. There were a couple times he forgot the pop! This isnt a recent development but wont let me see his phone or facebook, to the point he snatches it frim my hands and chews me out. Ive expressed a need for him to be more selective when accepting friend requests on facebook as i do, and to my dismay repeatadly accepts womens requests. Friends from highschool some single some married. He says he mainly had girl friends in highschool. From what i have seen there arent any messages, they never talk. But he refuses to refuse the request. Leaves the room for every phone conversation even if its with his mother. Theres other minor things... none of which seem normal to me. So my question is have you ever suspected your husband of something suspicious? What did it turn out to be about?
Update* first of all thank you for the help and support. Second i didnt think the convo would go this way, i should have added more details but i can lay the drug issue to rest. I begged him to quick smoking during both pregnancies, and he lied. Sometimes i caught him sometimes i asssumed and wed fight. He still wont admit to all the times he left but im pretty sure he was simply having a cigarette. You guys are good to catch that because i trusted him far too long. So no drugs. Id like to hear some stories from women who have suspected and never found anything. Advice from the other end that maybe even though things dont seem right there is the possibility that im wrong?