So my husband had a female friend in high school we can call her L, well they were close friends and i didnt know either of them.. i met L first and she instantly hated me ( for no reason). So i just avoided hanging out with her as much as possible. Well one day L and some other ppl tagged my car and wrote SLUT on my car ( i was a virgin) but hey whatever... After i met my husband and we started dating she hated my guts ( because she liked him) she tried to get him to break up with me by talking maddd crap about me to him and millions of other ppl. To this day i still hear of things that were said and in her final rant she confronted me saying i was nothing but a piece of crap and i didnt deserve my husband, this being said the day before our wedding. Well here we are a year later and im over it... it was imature and its over. But my husband comes up this afternoon wanting us to hangout with her and a few other friends.... my thing is whyyy would he want to hangout with her??? Why would you put her in a position to get in between us? She obviously has or has had feelings for him! Ughh... am i overreacting or what?? What would you do?