My 16 yr old SD is going on a week cruise with biomom and her husband which I have known about all summer. It just slipped out last night that they are taking sd's boyfriend too and paying for a separate cabin for them. I'm so disappointed that this was a secret they kept from me and dh and although I don't think we have any say in this I would have objected anyways. DH doesn't seem to have a problem with it but I think she's too young. I know they have sex and she's on bc now, but I sure wouldn't be giving them their own room. But I guess I'm just the stepmom who has no say in this. Pisses me off! Thanks for letting me vent.