My husband and I are divorcing. We have an 8 month old son. He is a very abusive man so i had to get out before he hurt our son. We are now going thru a custody battle. Still waiting for mediation. He never helped with our son before ever. Didnt care that he cried but now wants to be part of his life. I'm scared for my son. His father needs to get help.
Currently he has visits on the weekends and he is very hostile every time he comes to pick him up. I try to talk to him about his son's morrning....how much he ate, AM naps etc. He just walks away. Completely ignores me. Last weekend when he dropped off our son he was screaming at me regarding some of his stuff that was missing. (I packed all is stuff up since he wouldnt leave and changed the locks. I own the house) He didnt tell me anything about our son. I texted him that evening asking How our son's day went. No reply. He texted me asking about the truck the next day. (the truck is in my name) I didnt understand what he really wanted so i called him. He yelled at me, said its not rocket science! and told me what does it matter what he eats or how much he naps. Hung up on me.
I dont know how much more i can take. I dont know if i can do this for the next 18 yrs. We are not even together and Im still being abused. He texts me horrible things. I had to tell him to stop texting me and email me only regarding our son. The other day, i checked our bank acct info...he got a room at the motel 6. I guess thats what he meant by saying There are a lot of awesome women out there. He doesnt help pay for his son's diapers / formula. Im still paying for his healthcare insurance. He said He will give me money for it. No dime. It must be nice to move on so quickly and not have any responsibility.
I am so sad today. Feel sick to my stomach. Wish he would just go away. Leave my son and I alone. Cant wait for our divorce to go thru. Custody orders done. He hurt me so bad. I started couseling this week and joined the gym. Got a hot personal trainer. I hope i get better soon. The abuse really took a toll on me.