What upsets me is I'm a working mother living 1400 miles from my nearest relative besides DD and have no help. DDs father has her half time, except the past year he has been in jail, due to a fight with a guy at a bar, so we've had DD the entire last yr. My career is demanding at times and I work from 7-5, mon through fri. BF helps me drop her off at school and pick her up from after school care, but many times he complains about it. I am soooo frustrated with him. He pays none of the bills, Except what's his (car, insurance). He has helped pay for groceries, but that's it. Even that he has been complaining about lately. I pay the mortgage and all utilities. He sometimes says he thinks I'm using him for child care. Come on, it's not like I'm going out to party, I'm working so I can pay all the bills, the ones you don't help out with. I feel if he can't help financially, then he's obligated to me with DD. I can't exactly quit my job because we have bills and i have no backup income (BF). Does he have the right to complain? If anything I feel like I'm the one being used. Sorry long, rant over.