Do you think men are abusive? Because they feel they got a woman out their league. And intimated by her. And want to control her. My ex favorite thing to say to me was im not about sht. I wasnt working when i was with him. But i had my own apartment. And he didnt. I also had money from my cs coming in. He begs his mother for money. Or sisters. Or run into women that can take care of him. He is 30. Im much younger than him. And been working since i was 16. And i have enough to take care of me and my ds. But not a man. He also would belittle me. Call me ugly and dirty. And he would cheat on me. When we broke up. And he wanted to see me. He didnt even have money for a hotel. I realize that he was indeed jealous and intimated by me. Not that im rich. But im ok. I dnt have to beg anybody for anything. And i have my own. Also he im very pretty and alot of men like me. I think men that abuse women are insecure. As well as pycho. I regret meeting him. He was the worse relationship i ever had. He treated me like sht. This was an everyday battle. I actually believed what he said. I let him cheat. Verbally abuse me. Physically. Even to this day. He wont leave me alone.