I've been a sahm for 5 years. Dh has always worked to provide for us. He has a good job & makes good money but some weeks he works 80 hours. We have 2 children that are 3 and 5. Over the past 6 months things have gone down the drain. Not a day goes by that we don't argue. I do everything involving the house & kids and if I ask for his help he gets pissed. He called me a fucking bitch tonight in front of our 5yo which resulted in our son telling him he doesn't love him. He tries to control me with money since I don't work. I have to BEG him to spend time with our kids which he rarely does. His phone gets gets more attention from him than our kids do. We haven't had sex since may but I just dont want to be close to him. He tries but I always push him away bc the hurtful things he says are always running through my head. I got pregnant in may and was tired a lot then found out the baby wasn't growing. I had to have a d & c and then bled for 2 months. I seriously think he has anger issues but he refuses to get help. I can talk to him in a quiet calm voice without cussing or yelling and he pops off at me. Idk what to do. I'm at my wits end. Any advice??