i'm a young mom (20 and just had my second kid) and my babydaddy is 22 and has another daughter from a previous relationship. she is nothing but drama and so rude and immature and she's 22 also. i fould out that for the past two and a half years that he and i have been through all that we've been through and after 2 kids together, he has also been dating his other babymomma on and off...i told him i was done with him and i didn't even want to be his friend and i deserve someone who willa ctually love me and yada yada and he has turned into a bum and barely comes and sees his girls.....and we have a newborn who was born on August 15 and all that he's done for her is change one diaper. he's never fed her, never given her a bath...nothing. but as fucked up as he is i still want to be with him and have our family together and wake up to him every day and spend time with him and laugh and make memories.......am i lonely or do i really want to look past all his bullshit and be together...and do you think people could ever really change after 2 and a half years and 2 kids if they haven't changed already?