Sometimes I wonder why I even bother making rules and asking the kids to follow them. My mother in law knew my step daughter was grounded for being horrible at school and the rule was she would not be able to spend the night anywhere until she improves. She still calls to see if she can get her for the weekend even though I said she couldn't. She calls my husband ofcourse and he agrees to whatever his moms says despite what I say. He has the nerve to ask me and I said I thought she was grounded, He said yeah but my mom wants her. This is why everytime she is grounded she doesn't take it seriously because grandma and dad doesn't take it seriously and then I end up with a headache from her not listening. No one else has to deal with it. I am so sick of this. I didn't marry his whole family. I married him. So over this mess!