My husband and I got to taking and he was asked to go to a strip club and since it's for a friends party I'm not going to tell him no he can't go. I trust him but am still uncomfortable that he's going to be having strippers rubbing themselves on my husband. I know the girls only do that for money and are most likely not interested in sleeping with anyone but it still makes me uncomfortable. He apologized and told me that he's gotta go because he is going to be the best man and I understand that but I told him (joking) what if I went to the bar with a T shirt on that read "my husband is at the strip club so buy me a shot" and he got really upset by that. He told me it's not the same thing as him going to the strip club. He told me he trusts me totally but that would really upset him if I did that. So I feel like it's not fair that I have to stay home with our children and his children while he does something to make me uncomfortable but I can't go out and do something that makes him feel the same way.... any advice?
on Oct. 21, 2013 at 11:16 AM