I'm sorry if a lot of moms don't agree with me but I don't get the point of a SAHM. I can definelty understand if you absolutely need to be. For example, if you cannot afford daycare or if your husband is in the army, health reason or simply if you have a few kids that aren't in school yet. But if all your kids are in school and there is literally no reason why you are staying home, WHY are you?! What do you literally have to do that you can not work?! I don't get it. I can make dinner, clean, takes are of kids and do every single thing that a SAHM can do on top of working 40 hours a week. What is so hard about doing that? It's called life. On top of that, what if your husband /SO loses his job or he leaves you?? Wouldn't you want a back up plan? I just don't get it. I simply don't.
Also in my opinion, this economy is not any place to be doing the 1950's BS. people lose their jobs left and right. My SO has a degree in IT networking( which is a very high demanding job) and every single one of the jobs he has had have not lasted longer than 2 months because of the screwed up economy. That's why I always like to have a job to back it up until he finds another one.
So please inform me on why you are if your kids are in school and you have no other reason? So I can at least try to understand. And I don't want any of that "my husband makes so much so I don't need to work" shit. That's the biggest mooching excuse I have EVER heard.