Why are some men assholes? I went and put some things on layaway for Christmas. We have 200 set aside for Christmas this year so far. I used 100 to start it. You would have thought I over-drew the account by the way he was acting when I got home. HE wanted to do it. HE wanted to take any fun I have for shopping for the kids. HE wanted to be the "hero". HE wants to control everything in this house. HE is THE MAN.
He then started on me not going to Church with him and the kids and me not "making" the kids go. Um, I work EVERY weekend. He told me tonight that my beliefs are stupid. I finally had it and told him that he can take his old-fashioned, middle ages beliefs and shove them so far up his ass that he can choke on it. He informs me that we need counseling with his PASTOR. Why would I want to talk to someone that has his beliefs on what women should do?
Speaking of that, I work full-time and get 1 day off a week. He does not work due to disabilities. Guess what I have to do on my day off? That's right-clean and do laundry. Yet he bitches and whines about the house being a mess. WTF does he do all day? Kids are in school.
So if he is such an ass, why am I still with him?? I wonder that myself. Well, he controls the money. He can't budget worth shit. The house and the cars are in his name. Is it really worth it to throw 14 years of marriage down the drain because he is PMS'ing? I am sick of his whining. For his Christmas present, I am giving him a pacifier and telling him where he can put it.
All this shit because I put a layaway on for the kids.