I'm always the one to say its the moms choice. But I keep wondering who the baby she's going to abort would look like. What was his/her path? Never to be. She gave her first up for adoption and it wrecked her so its simply not an option (she tried to kill herself).
I'm scared for her. I know she can't handle another baby but I don't think she understands the emotional pain coming.
I don't believe it's a justifiable reason to abort. But I'm in the same boat. If I got pregnant again I'd lose my mind (2 is 150% my limit already).
I'm going to get tubal ASAP. I don't know if I could make that kind of decision.
Just kinda sad about the whole thing. I went from happy for her to sad but I can't tell her that it it will break her heart.