Hi....I'm new here...I'm sorry I didnt properly introduce myself...I just saw the word "vent-" and ran with it....I really need to vent about something but I'm hesitant. I dont normally go on ranting about things and it makes me aweful when I actually cave and go off.....I think to myself "oh shaddup, quit whining" or "suck it up and move on" I guess I'm hard on myself. Idk!!
Anyway....I guess I'm venting about wanting to vent and not feeling like I can. HAHA! how ironic!
Basically, my issue comes down to someone telling you theyre going to do something and then they dont. They avoid the situation like it's diseased and theyre catching or something. I'm sure a few of you have dealt with this. I'm dealing with 2 people like this right now. What makes it worse is when you woulda done whatever it was YOURself if the person hadnt offered....Or you started something you never would have KNOWING you couldnt do it yourself, but you did because someone offered to help. At one point do I just say forget it and decide to move on and admit it's just not going to happen???? For how long do you keep poking...hinting about it...or do you just say "hey man, wtf?" you know??.....how does this go? How do you not be upset with the person about it? How will i ever trust this person again knowing they set me up for failure??