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Should i be upset
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 19, 2013 at 12:09 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 21, 2013 at 10:48 AM
Well i do love porn myself i guest him watchn it without me i get a lil hurt but ima have to step our sex game up make it more tastey
PoisonEyeV
by on Dec. 21, 2013 at 10:50 AM

I am fine with it as long as I don't know when he's doing it. Thankfully, he does it when everyone is asleep or I'm not home (which is rare, but still).

I made the mistake once and asked him what kind of women does he look for in vids. And he told me and I was like, oh...okay. *sigh*

He is still very much wanting sex from me and he doesn't go looking for things elsewhere so unless any of those things change I have zero issues with him watching porn.

kimjenkins17
by Member on Dec. 21, 2013 at 11:19 AM

The excuse that "all men do it" drives me insane! Can women get away with any one thing because "all women do it"??? I wish we could have a free excuse like that! There is nothing that I can get away with because "all women do it". This drives me nuts!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 9 on Dec. 21, 2013 at 11:52 AM
1.5 times a day!?? No wonder dh showers so often.

Quoting Anonymous: When it comes right down to it one if three things are true when you're horny. (Men and women)



1) you masturbate



2) you have sex with someone (SO or another-adultery)



3) you do nothing and become sexually frustrated.



Men masturbate an average of 1.5 times a day. Unless you're up for 10+ rounds of nookie every week, then let him deal with it on his own some of that time.



And some men just want fast gratification. When they have sex, there's an expectation of pleasing the other. Sometimes they're just not up for that much effort. Expecting sex every time your so is horny is selfish.



Porn enhances the experience. I'm a firm believer that you should not force your moral beliefs on others. If he watches porn, he obviously has nothing against it and you obviously do.



Does he beat you? Starve you? Treat you like dirt? No? Just likes to watch porn on occasion to get off? Seriously folks, there are worse things that could be going on. Priorities.



Quoting Anonymous: The stupid ultimatums and the "well, atleast he's not cheating on you, he could be doing something worse!" I hate hearing that! Neither one is acceptable if he's doing something you don't like either way. People keep trying to justify it, when if it was discussed as a no no it's all still unacceptable!





Quoting Anonymous: There what is again?







Quoting Anonymous: And there it is again -_-









Quoting Anonymous: Porn or a crabby sexually frustrated man or an unfaithful one. What's your pleasure?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 21, 2013 at 12:23 PM
Honestly I never really notice. I'm sure my dh does it more than most though. I couldn't keep up with that if we were childless lol

Quoting Anonymous: 1.5 times a day!?? No wonder dh showers so often.



Quoting Anonymous: When it comes right down to it one if three things are true when you're horny. (Men and women)





1) you masturbate





2) you have sex with someone (SO or another-adultery)





3) you do nothing and become sexually frustrated.





Men masturbate an average of 1.5 times a day. Unless you're up for 10+ rounds of nookie every week, then let him deal with it on his own some of that time.





And some men just want fast gratification. When they have sex, there's an expectation of pleasing the other. Sometimes they're just not up for that much effort. Expecting sex every time your so is horny is selfish.





Porn enhances the experience. I'm a firm believer that you should not force your moral beliefs on others. If he watches porn, he obviously has nothing against it and you obviously do.





Does he beat you? Starve you? Treat you like dirt? No? Just likes to watch porn on occasion to get off? Seriously folks, there are worse things that could be going on. Priorities.





Quoting Anonymous: The stupid ultimatums and the "well, atleast he's not cheating on you, he could be doing something worse!" I hate hearing that! Neither one is acceptable if he's doing something you don't like either way. People keep trying to justify it, when if it was discussed as a no no it's all still unacceptable!







Quoting Anonymous: There what is again?









Quoting Anonymous: And there it is again -_-











Quoting Anonymous: Porn or a crabby sexually frustrated man or an unfaithful one. What's your pleasure?
notjstasocermom
by Bronze Member on Dec. 21, 2013 at 12:59 PM
Mine doesn't

Quoting Anonymous:

porn is porn. is your dh looking at it?? if so then cant help you there cause all men do that, atleast he's not cheating instead. if your uncomfortable with him watching it, you should try and talk to him. =)

lovemercygrace
by Member on Dec. 21, 2013 at 8:05 PM
Not all men look at porn. You really shouldn't generalize. My husband doesn't watch it.

Quoting Anonymous:

porn is porn. is your dh looking at it?? if so then cant help you there cause all men do that, atleast he's not cheating instead. if your uncomfortable with him watching it, you should try and talk to him. =)

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