Is there anything women can get away with? I was reading the post about porn and so many responses were that its ok for dh to watch it because "all men do it" and "at least he's not cheating." Well, my goodness! Thank you SO much for actually obeying your vows and not cheating! You deserve a treat, please go get yourself off by watching sexual acts! Its like we have been groomed to be grateful that our husbands aren't cheating. And on this same topic, is there anything women can do and get away with because "all women do it"? For instance we all have pms and can get eomtional but we're still labeled a bitch or acting bitchy. Men don't go around saying "well she has pms but at least she didn't kill me", I mean that's a stretch but does anyone see my point? Its sad thatso many women are uncomfortable or hurt by their man watching porn but have to bite their tongue because they feel they should be grateful he's not cheating.