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Question about renewing an old friendship

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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Ok, here is the deal. I used to work with her wayyy back in the day. She and I reconnected and started emailing each other. We tried and tried to get together and do lunch, but we could never get together on a day that was convenient for both of us. Now, a year or so later, I feel bad about the way our friendship ended(she wanted to get together on a day that was bad for me(I'd already made a hair appt for that day). I could have cancelled it, but I chose not to, and it was my choice not to email me and be friends anymore. I see that she is on Linkedin. I thought about sending her a nice message and seeing if we could start again, but I don't know.....what would you ladies do? Thanks :)

Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 30, 2013 at 1:08 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 30, 2013 at 1:27 PM
Why?
nerdymom28
by Member on Dec. 30, 2013 at 1:32 PM

 Do whatever you feel is best. Personally, I would see no need to try again and I'd leave it be. Why is this so important to you?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 30, 2013 at 1:32 PM

 

Quoting Anonymous:Why?

 

Why not???

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 30, 2013 at 1:35 PM

 

Quoting nerdymom28:

 Do whatever you feel is best. Personally, I would see no need to try again and I'd leave it be. Why is this so important to you?

 It just is. I have my reasons, and I'd rather not share them here.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 30, 2013 at 1:41 PM
She's just not that into you. If you can't find time in one year to reconnect quit wasting her time to make yourself feel better for the bad ending

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Quoting Anonymous:Why?


 


Why not???

nerdymom28
by Member on Dec. 30, 2013 at 1:43 PM

Okay....well good luck with all that.

Quoting Anonymous:

 

Quoting nerdymom28:

 Do whatever you feel is best. Personally, I would see no need to try again and I'd leave it be. Why is this so important to you?

 It just is. I have my reasons, and I'd rather not share them here.

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 30, 2013 at 1:47 PM

 Thanks.

Quoting nerdymom28:

Okay....well good luck with all that.

Quoting Anonymous:

 

Quoting nerdymom28:

 Do whatever you feel is best. Personally, I would see no need to try again and I'd leave it be. Why is this so important to you?

 It just is. I have my reasons, and I'd rather not share them here.

 

 

mysticalmalissa
by Silver Member on Dec. 31, 2013 at 4:58 AM

I would just let it be. If she really wanted to reconnect she would have kept in touch.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 2, 2014 at 3:08 PM

She has decided to become friends again. Awesomeness for me.

psych_mom
by on Jan. 2, 2014 at 3:33 PM

Are you going to make time for her in your schedule this time around or is everything else going to still be more important?

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