My oldest daughter just turned 15 and for the past two years she has been smoking cigarettes. I've grounded her, thrown her cigarettes away, and taken away privledges etc. Nothing has worked and I finally got to the point at Christmas that I wasn't going to allow this constant fighting to ruin our relationship, and I told her from now on she could smoke at home and I would buy her cigarettes as long as she paid me for them. As sad as I am that she smokes I realized that her and my relationship was more important. Has anyone else been through this before?