Kids are not clothes you can just give away when you don't like them anymore!
Ok I'm going to try and make this as less confusing as I can but I'm so ready to flip out.
i have a brother (let's call him D) well D is now 20.when he was 17 he taked his 15 yr old GF (we will call her S) into having a baby.he made her all these promises for having a good life and a family together ( he is very got at manipulating) so she got pregnant a month before she turned 16. Well when she was about 14 weeks pregnant D started cheating and didn't want to get a job like he told S he would.well S told him to get his act together like he promised her or she was done with him.well he broke up with her and started seeing other women and just said fuck S and the baby.
Well S had a baby girl and D saw her once the day she was born.she will be 3 this year and he refuses to pay his child support nothing won't help S at all.well in May D had another baby with another women (let's call her G) D seemed like maybe he had got his shit together and was going to hang around.well when the baby was a month old .D got arrested for beating G and not paying child support.so everyone tried to help G and the baby and told her what a scumbag D is.she didn't listen and took D back.well when the baby was about 5 months old G and D decided they didn't want her anymore and gave custody to my mother because they didn't want her.well G is now 4 months pregnant again and (this is the part that fucking pisses me off) that when G has this baby they are going to trade my mom this baby for the other baby !! And the reason is G can't work and take care of a newborn so they will take the other one back so my mom doesn't have to have both kids living with her.but my mom will still baby sit both babies while G is working!
I want to beat the shit out of all of them.im speechless as to how any of them can think this is ok.
just wanted to add I know its a little confusing the 3yr old is with her mom how has done a wonderful job being she was 16 when she had her.my mom has the baby who is now what 8momths she would be a toddler when the new baby is born. So when I say toddler I'm not talking about the 3yr old sorry if it's confusing
edit.since I have been asked a few times.yes my mom has no problem "trading" babies with then.she just wants something to dress up and play with like its a toy.she doesn't actually care about doing what right.as if right now I can not report them to cps because they are not doing anything illegal.cps won't do anything yet.i think both babies should be put up for adopts and away from my crazy mother and brother.but that would never happen