"Everyone takes advantage of me I have no money to get to work till I get paid. My friends co workers and sister never pays me back for driving. I have no money. No clothes I work 40 hours a week as a manager and they havent given me a raise I just wanna scream I feel a breakdown coming on."
I feel bad but I recently just paid $1,900 in rent/deposits today for a new place. I have some money but when he previously lived with me he barely helped me pay rent and I am currently paying for a cell phone I got him but turned off when we broke up. Would you help him out or let him work it out himself? He said if he didn't make it to work he would lose his job. Mind you he is 27 years old.
So while initially I felt bad, I still didn't loan him the money. He continued to tell me about how much stress had about not having any and once he got down here and barely having any clothes I still decided to let him figure it out. I feel that's money being taken away from my daughter. He accidentally texted me a message yesterday he meant to send to his ex that stated
"Ok obviously ur showin out lol its good I suck in bed so that means till next friday I can show someone else how bad I am lol".
I asked him about it and he stated he was arguing with his ex. Then yelled at me stating I needed to grow up and I'm on some bullshit for being upset about him sending it to me on accident. That doesn't look like an argument to me at all. So needless to say we are over and I saved money.