I have so much hatred for my husbands ex. and they have been divorced over 15yrs. They had 2 girls together and she has done everything to allienate his girls from him. He pays a lot of child support, never late, never a missed payment. He has tried everything but she will not ease up on him and she has kept the girls away from him. His oldest is turning 18 in a couple months and he has asked me to help him reach out to his daughters and write them both a letter. He has cried so many times for them, they will never know. He will finally get his chance to tell his side. But how much is to much information about how their mother kept him out of their lives? Should he tell them the truth, or just apoligise for not being there for them? She has done every mean and hurtful thing she could to keep him away from them. What should he say in the letters? How can he reach out to them? As far as his ex goes. I wouldn't piss on her if she was on fire! I really wouldn't. Just the thought of her makes me sick. But I have been quiet and I haven't said a word to her about her actions. But I think its time to lay everything on the table, and let the truth come out. Am I wrong??