Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

POrn

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
  • 12 Replies
1 mom liked this

I hate it! I hate when my SO lies about watching it and I hate he says he will never never do it again!!!!!!!!!!!!!

banging head into wall

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 12, 2014 at 6:07 PM
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Replies (1-10):
Mrs.Kubalabuku
by Bronze Member on Mar. 12, 2014 at 6:08 PM

I hate lies, too.

TheFairest
by on Mar. 12, 2014 at 6:08 PM
Don't ask and he won't lie. How often does he watch? If it's not frequent I wouldn't worry, if it's constantly, daily and affecting your sexual relationship then maybe he needs help.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 12, 2014 at 6:09 PM
1 mom liked this
I used to hate porn until I met my husband. He changed the way I feel about all that stuff. It's weird how when your husband or SO makes you feel confident and beautiful you're able to look past the petty things
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 12, 2014 at 6:11 PM

I did not ask him He runs a server from home and told me to do something on his pc so I open google and there is a site xnx.com or something like that and free cam site as well I mean really.

Quoting TheFairest: Don't ask and he won't lie. How often does he watch? If it's not frequent I wouldn't worry, if it's constantly, daily and affecting your sexual relationship then maybe he needs help.


MamaJess9
by Member on Mar. 12, 2014 at 6:12 PM
This irks me. I really think this is one of those things couples should discuss before they get serious, like children, money, religion, etc. It's something that seems to be such a huge point of contention for some women. If he likes porn you're not going to change him and he's not going to change your mind about liking it.
Tuned.Out
by on Mar. 12, 2014 at 6:18 PM

Lying in a relationship is an awful thing. 

Is there any way that you to can find a happy compromise? It seems like he's going to continue to watch porn, and you're going to continue to want him to promise that he won't. It's going to be an endless cycle of him doing it, you finding out, him trying to lie about it, you getting even more upset and round-n-round it will go. Some people can't compromise and it's a total deal breaker, some can. You'll have to decide which person you are. Can you compromise with him and be happy. Or do you have to have absolute no porn usage of any kind in your relationship.  You want him to respect and understand your feelings about porn. You also need to respect and understand his feelings about it as well.

Mrs.Bolin
by Bronze Member on Mar. 12, 2014 at 7:18 PM

oh well...typical man and porn. No biggie!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 12, 2014 at 9:51 PM

I never ask him to promise he would not watch it, he told me his self he would not I have told him how I feel he just don't carw, so I asked him would it like for me to watch some other guy get off? He alway's tell me no, so then why in the world od you do it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 12, 2014 at 10:56 PM

It is him lieing about it, hell I looked up the free cams and the girls he looked at were not hot at all he says he does not masturbate then why in the world watch it, and then porn videos were all of older wen like milf videos, but why lie tell me you watched it fucked up thing is he was talking to me about fucking me today I stayed with my mom lastnight well that did not happen cause his ass watched porn and jacked off. 

Quoting Mrs.Bolin:

oh well...typical man and porn. No biggie!


kali_mom
by New Member on Mar. 12, 2014 at 11:20 PM
I love the head bang on the wall
Sorry he's not being honest with you. What about a talk with a counselor so you can both be truly open about the subject
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)