I was DX with MS when DS was age 13. He was a great kid polite, but my MS got very severe and my Ex DH took on custody because of how bad my MS was getting at one point. In fear of DS safety if I fell or couldn't walk or move during an episode, it was what I thought was the best fit for him.
Boy was I wrong. He has "grown" to be rude, disgustingly disrespectful, out of control- He even bails on me for our plans.
He drinks with my ex. I told ex DH my DS was not ready for a car due to his behavior, and not even a week after my ex buys him a 3,345 used 2001 Honda, my 18 yrs old DS was arrested yesterday for a DWI!
I am in tears and guilt for ever allowing him to stay with his father. His father said it was not that serious!
He is facing 30 days in jail, 4,000 in fines, DL taken for 3 months, AA program for 3 months !
His breathalyzer came out to a .9%!!! He could have killed someone!
And my ex thinks it's not that serious!
I can not even get upset due to fear of having an episode!
I am not bailing him out either