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porn to my baby boys

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Our 11 yrold came to us this past thursday and told me and their step dad tht his biodad showed him and his lil brother pornography My dh and I have taken all steps and called the police and now have an investigation going what I want to know what gonna happen after they interview our boys? I feel so bad they have to deal with this.
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 24, 2014 at 8:46 PM
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Steph84FL
by Member on Mar. 24, 2014 at 9:55 PM
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Snooping kids get what they're looking for...To be completely grossed out by their parents. Lol.

Quoting momto3B:

I am sorry, but maybe you want to put your "hope chest porn collection" in something a little more safe then your "hope chest" so your teenagers don't get it.  Seriously - you have never heard of a lock box?  Or better yet, don't have a porn collection for a few years - yeesh.

Quoting Anonymous:

My now 16 year old snooped in our room and took a DVD of porn into his room and watched porn at the age of 13. My porn and toys were in my closet in a hope chest. I thought they'd be safe.I guess the cops should of been called on me.

I found out when I went looking for a DVD in sons room that he had took from the family collection.

Honestly it sounds like your kids were snooping I highly doubt a grown man would show his kids porn at that age.

If it truly happen I'm sorry.

Quoting Anonymous: Our 11 yrold came to us this past thursday and told me and their step dad tht his biodad showed him and his lil brother pornography My dh and I have taken all steps and called the police and now have an investigation going what I want to know what gonna happen after they interview our boys? I feel so bad they have to deal with this.

momto3B
by Bronze Member on Mar. 24, 2014 at 9:55 PM

He dd not find porn, - HE FOUND HIS MOTHER"S PORN. 

Quoting Anonymous:

He was 13 doubt he was throwing up when he watched the DVD. The DVD was in its box he knew what it was when he found it. I had them in MY ROOM, IN MY CLOSET, IN A LOCKED BOX and again MY ROOM.

I had a long talk with him about it and he said most of his friends had already seen porn. He was in 8th grade for Christ sake and had 3 pregnant girls in his class.

I'm not responding to you anymore. Mother perfect you must be.

Quoting momto3B:

You were clearly not terribly concerned that he would find them - so why bother to lock it at all? Nice, instead of an x-box, he got mom's dildo's and porn collection. I am sure after he stops throwing up in his mouth, that he will never go through your things again. Flimsy locks no longer needed. 

Quoting Anonymous:

What ever. Kids will snoop. An it was locked he just picked the lock it was close to Yule and he was looking for gifts.

Quoting momto3B:

I am sorry, but maybe you want to put your "hope chest porn collection" in something a little more safe then your "hope chest" so your teenagers don't get it.  Seriously - you have never heard of a lock box?  Or better yet, don't have a porn collection for a few years - yeesh.

Quoting Anonymous:

My now 16 year old snooped in our room and took a DVD of porn into his room and watched porn at the age of 13. My porn and toys were in my closet in a hope chest. I thought they'd be safe.I guess the cops should of been called on me.

I found out when I went looking for a DVD in sons room that he had took from the family collection.

Honestly it sounds like your kids were snooping I highly doubt a grown man would show his kids porn at that age.

If it truly happen I'm sorry.

Quoting Anonymous: Our 11 yrold came to us this past thursday and told me and their step dad tht his biodad showed him and his lil brother pornography My dh and I have taken all steps and called the police and now have an investigation going what I want to know what gonna happen after they interview our boys? I feel so bad they have to deal with this.




momto3B
by Bronze Member on Mar. 24, 2014 at 9:57 PM

If I want something to be private, I keep it locked up. What parent does not assume that their kids snoop?

Quoting Steph84FL: Snooping kids get what they're looking for...To be completely grossed out by their parents. Lol.
Quoting momto3B:

I am sorry, but maybe you want to put your "hope chest porn collection" in something a little more safe then your "hope chest" so your teenagers don't get it.  Seriously - you have never heard of a lock box?  Or better yet, don't have a porn collection for a few years - yeesh.

Quoting Anonymous:

My now 16 year old snooped in our room and took a DVD of porn into his room and watched porn at the age of 13. My porn and toys were in my closet in a hope chest. I thought they'd be safe.I guess the cops should of been called on me.

I found out when I went looking for a DVD in sons room that he had took from the family collection.

Honestly it sounds like your kids were snooping I highly doubt a grown man would show his kids porn at that age.

If it truly happen I'm sorry.

Quoting Anonymous: Our 11 yrold came to us this past thursday and told me and their step dad tht his biodad showed him and his lil brother pornography My dh and I have taken all steps and called the police and now have an investigation going what I want to know what gonna happen after they interview our boys? I feel so bad they have to deal with this.



Steph84FL
by Member on Mar. 24, 2014 at 9:57 PM
A good enough parent?!? Haha even the good kids can be devious.

Quoting Anonymous: So someone else's children were being bad snooping little brats just because you weren't a good enough parent to teach your children boundaries and not to steal? Btw you said teenager, 13 not 11 and being forced to watch something or shown something. If her child had "snooped" I don't think he would randomly rat hisself out.

Quoting Anonymous:

My now 16 year old snooped in our room and took a DVD of porn into his room and watched porn at the age of 13. My porn and toys were in my closet in a hope chest. I thought they'd be safe.I guess the cops should of been called on me.

I found out when I went looking for a DVD in sons room that he had took from the family collection.

Honestly it sounds like your kids were snooping I highly doubt a grown man would show his kids porn at that age.

If it truly happen I'm sorry.

Quoting Anonymous: Our 11 yrold came to us this past thursday and told me and their step dad tht his biodad showed him and his lil brother pornography My dh and I have taken all steps and called the police and now have an investigation going what I want to know what gonna happen after they interview our boys? I feel so bad they have to deal with this.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 24, 2014 at 10:00 PM
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Right I think I was more upset when I found it then he was when I sat him down. DH was laughing his ass off about it and handled most of the conversation. We have since then moved the stash of DVD and mags. 

Quoting Steph84FL: Snooping kids get what they're looking for...To be completely grossed out by their parents. Lol.
Quoting momto3B:

I am sorry, but maybe you want to put your "hope chest porn collection" in something a little more safe then your "hope chest" so your teenagers don't get it.  Seriously - you have never heard of a lock box?  Or better yet, don't have a porn collection for a few years - yeesh.

Quoting Anonymous:

My now 16 year old snooped in our room and took a DVD of porn into his room and watched porn at the age of 13. My porn and toys were in my closet in a hope chest. I thought they'd be safe.I guess the cops should of been called on me.

I found out when I went looking for a DVD in sons room that he had took from the family collection.

Honestly it sounds like your kids were snooping I highly doubt a grown man would show his kids porn at that age.

If it truly happen I'm sorry.

Quoting Anonymous: Our 11 yrold came to us this past thursday and told me and their step dad tht his biodad showed him and his lil brother pornography My dh and I have taken all steps and called the police and now have an investigation going what I want to know what gonna happen after they interview our boys? I feel so bad they have to deal with this.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 25, 2014 at 10:55 AM
No I dnt.

Quoting Anonymous: :( my dad did this when I was younger. He would watch porn and sex chat with women with the door open and didn't care if my brother and I were in the room with him. Do you know the type the boys saw?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 25, 2014 at 11:00 AM
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Its just sickning to me that a grown ass man would show his child this! Its wrong and immoral.
HaroldsMom
by Member on Mar. 25, 2014 at 11:01 AM
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I hope every thing works out for you and your kids and you may have to have the talk with them and I will be praying for your family

nurse1997
by on Mar. 25, 2014 at 11:04 AM
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Lady give me a break he was 13 get a clue !

Quoting momto3B:

I am sorry, but maybe you want to put your "hope chest porn collection" in something a little more safe then your "hope chest" so your teenagers don't get it.  Seriously - you have never heard of a lock box?  Or better yet, don't have a porn collection for a few years - yeesh.

Quoting Anonymous:

My now 16 year old snooped in our room and took a DVD of porn into his room and watched porn at the age of 13. My porn and toys were in my closet in a hope chest. I thought they'd be safe.I guess the cops should of been called on me.

I found out when I went looking for a DVD in sons room that he had took from the family collection.

Honestly it sounds like your kids were snooping I highly doubt a grown man would show his kids porn at that age.

If it truly happen I'm sorry.

Quoting Anonymous: Our 11 yrold came to us this past thursday and told me and their step dad tht his biodad showed him and his lil brother pornography My dh and I have taken all steps and called the police and now have an investigation going what I want to know what gonna happen after they interview our boys? I feel so bad they have to deal with this.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 25, 2014 at 11:09 AM
Thank you so much sweetheart!
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