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porn to my baby boys

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Our 11 yrold came to us this past thursday and told me and their step dad tht his biodad showed him and his lil brother pornography My dh and I have taken all steps and called the police and now have an investigation going what I want to know what gonna happen after they interview our boys? I feel so bad they have to deal with this.
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 24, 2014 at 8:46 PM
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dollface929
by Member on Apr. 6, 2014 at 11:36 AM
I know right...and there are a lot if sick men that show there young sons porn . My fiances father introduced him and his brothers to porn at a young age.

Quoting peregrinus:

In what universe does "Dad SHOWED us porn"  sound like "I snooped in Dad's room and saw his porn"????????

Quoting Anonymous:

My now 16 year old snooped in our room and took a DVD of porn into his room and watched porn at the age of 13. My porn and toys were in my closet in a hope chest. I thought they'd be safe.I guess the cops should of been called on me.

I found out when I went looking for a DVD in sons room that he had took from the family collection.

Honestly it sounds like your kids were snooping I highly doubt a grown man would show his kids porn at that age.

If it truly happen I'm sorry.

Quoting Anonymous: Our 11 yrold came to us this past thursday and told me and their step dad tht his biodad showed him and his lil brother pornography My dh and I have taken all steps and called the police and now have an investigation going what I want to know what gonna happen after they interview our boys? I feel so bad they have to deal with this.

dollface929
by Member on Apr. 6, 2014 at 11:41 AM
Yeah my fiances dad introduced him and his brother to porn at a young age. And i know of a few other men that have showed porn to their young sons... disgusting

Quoting Anonymous: What land where you born in? There are many sick people out there that would gladly show not only porn but much more to children. Maybe you should watch the news some times?

Quoting Anonymous:

My now 16 year old snooped in our room and took a DVD of porn into his room and watched porn at the age of 13. My porn and toys were in my closet in a hope chest. I thought they'd be safe.I guess the cops should of been called on me.

I found out when I went looking for a DVD in sons room that he had took from the family collection.

Honestly it sounds like your kids were snooping I highly doubt a grown man would show his kids porn at that age.

If it truly happen I'm sorry.

Quoting Anonymous: Our 11 yrold came to us this past thursday and told me and their step dad tht his biodad showed him and his lil brother pornography My dh and I have taken all steps and called the police and now have an investigation going what I want to know what gonna happen after they interview our boys? I feel so bad they have to deal with this.

TAG9lbs
by Member on Apr. 6, 2014 at 11:58 AM
Isn't that what we all are doing? A lot of post messages where someone gives a scenario often leaves out key things to help us understand what is really going on. Now that i've read back over the comments her second page has details she added details tht weren't in the OP.

Quoting Anonymous: Yeah and you're assuming ... when you don't even know the op or what happened.

Quoting TAG9lbs:

 I initailly think you are being over dramatic and encouraging your kids to play the blame game. In which a child blames dad for something mom does not approve of. This is mostly cause some of your replies come off as u sitting on a high horse with perfect kids.


It is sad if ur Ex has hiring issues after all this over a misunderstanding. On a positive if a truth comes out in the end it will be a harsh life lesson for all.


On the other hand if you are right and this was a very inappropriate encounter between father and child it can be a very intimidating experience with all the people that ask them questions. I highly recommend you contact BACAWORLD.ORG These are guys that all have experience either personal or through a loved one that had some interaction with inappropriate behavior around children. If they feel it is needed they will declare the boys their brother and give them the support they need to give honest answers in the court room. If this is what you think it is I wish u the best of luck.

BeiberHATER
by on Apr. 6, 2014 at 12:17 PM

 why would there be something wrong with me?

Quoting dollface929: Wtf is wrong with you??
Quoting BeiberHATER:

 Ok, I got into my dad's porn stash when I was 8. Your kid was probably being nosey and got into his porn and what he saw shocked the hell out of him and he didn't know how to deal with it.

Be prepared for the questions about what hew saw.

BTW, by the time I was 13 I had a porn and sex toy collection stash that put my dad's to shame. When I became an adult, he would even borrow some of my porn movies from me. His favorite was SNOOP DOGG'S DOGGYSTYLE...lol

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 23 on Apr. 7, 2014 at 1:16 AM

You really are a piece of donkey shit for judging someone you dont know. 
Who cares. Ask your hubby, or boyfriend,,,I GUARENTEE he snooped in his parents room and snuck some porn. SHAME ON HIS PARENTS!!!!!!!!
Sheesh. Get a life and quit judging others. Oh, BY THE WAY...WHO THE F@@@ are YOU to say she wasnt being a good parent. Go screw yourself. Mothers like you are disgusting. 

Quoting Anonymous: So someone else's children were being bad snooping little brats just because you weren't a good enough parent to teach your children boundaries and not to steal? Btw you said teenager, 13 not 11 and being forced to watch something or shown something. If her child had "snooped" I don't think he would randomly rat hisself out.
Quoting Anonymous:

My now 16 year old snooped in our room and took a DVD of porn into his room and watched porn at the age of 13. My porn and toys were in my closet in a hope chest. I thought they'd be safe.I guess the cops should of been called on me.

I found out when I went looking for a DVD in sons room that he had took from the family collection.

Honestly it sounds like your kids were snooping I highly doubt a grown man would show his kids porn at that age.

If it truly happen I'm sorry.

Quoting Anonymous: Our 11 yrold came to us this past thursday and told me and their step dad tht his biodad showed him and his lil brother pornography My dh and I have taken all steps and called the police and now have an investigation going what I want to know what gonna happen after they interview our boys? I feel so bad they have to deal with this.


BrooklynBaby29
by New Member on Apr. 7, 2014 at 5:15 AM
Hey kids at the ages 10 and up kno alot of things we as parents just dnt kno until we find out. Dnt think its your kids first time seeing porn it must of been their first time telling u. After they saw it a few times and thought I need to tell mom.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 24 on May. 10, 2014 at 4:35 PM
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That is so incredibly sick. Fight this to the end.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 23, 2014 at 1:51 AM
And I quote what they told me"Daddy said look at this" then they said "it was a magazine of naked ladies with no clothes on" umm, u really think they wld tell on themselves if they were "snooping"? I think not.

Quoting BrooklynBaby29: Hey kids at the ages 10 and up kno alot of things we as parents just dnt kno until we find out. Dnt think its your kids first time seeing porn it must of been their first time telling u. After they saw it a few times and thought I need to tell mom.
Bonnie_
by Bronze Member on May. 23, 2014 at 1:58 AM

Please post any updates in the

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 23, 2014 at 2:01 AM
No updates yet

Quoting Bonnie_:

Please post any updates in the

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