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porn to my baby boys

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
Our 11 yrold came to us this past thursday and told me and their step dad tht his biodad showed him and his lil brother pornography My dh and I have taken all steps and called the police and now have an investigation going what I want to know what gonna happen after they interview our boys? I feel so bad they have to deal with this.
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 24, 2014 at 8:46 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 26, 2014 at 4:50 PM
They only take children away if they are abused,neglected dear they dont always comeout to take kids away from healthy happy homes. My children are safe and happy,healthy,clean,they are not abused or neglected or any of those factors.the lady was very nice and was just checking on them and talking to them.

Quoting Trudestevens: What I understand is CPS takes kids away puts them in a foster home. That's usually what happens.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 26, 2014 at 4:59 PM
I did explain to them that was not normal. I did wait until they were out of my presence before I made a police report.

Quoting veggiemom474:

My 10 yr SD (10 at the time) was caught looking at porn on her tablet and phone. My own DD saw it as well. The therapist my DD was going to at the time said not to make too big a deal out of it. Explain to them why its not the norm, sex is for people who love each other blah blah blah. So, she basically said the bigger deal we make, the more they'll wanna look at it again. We've since made sure they cannot view it anymore.


This is different, it sounds more like a type of sexual abuse. The dad may just be dumb, and thought he was giving a lesson about sex, but it sounds abusive to me.

BmoreRavens
by Bronze Member on Mar. 26, 2014 at 5:08 PM


Quoting momto3B:

He dd not find porn, - HE FOUND HIS MOTHER"S PORN. 

As in, sex tapes OF his mother?

Is that what was meant when the OP said MY porn?!! 

Maybe, I'm a little confused? I hope so!! ;)

momto3B
by Bronze Member on Mar. 26, 2014 at 5:10 PM

No LOL!! It was her "stash" of porn. 

Quoting BmoreRavens:


Quoting momto3B:

He dd not find porn, - HE FOUND HIS MOTHER"S PORN. 

As in, sex tapes OF his mother?

Is that what was meant when the OP said MY porn?!! 

Maybe, I'm a little confused? I hope so!! ;)


BmoreRavens
by Bronze Member on Mar. 26, 2014 at 5:19 PM


Quoting momto3B:

No LOL!! It was her "stash" of porn. 

Quoting BmoreRavens:


Quoting momto3B:

He dd not find porn, - HE FOUND HIS MOTHER"S PORN. 

As in, sex tapes OF his mother?

Is that what was meant when the OP said MY porn?!! 

Maybe, I'm a little confused? I hope so!! ;)


Oh, thank God!! :)

BeiberHATER
by on Mar. 27, 2014 at 12:22 AM

 Ok, I got into my dad's porn stash when I was 8. Your kid was probably being nosey and got into his porn and what he saw shocked the hell out of him and he didn't know how to deal with it.

Be prepared for the questions about what hew saw.

BTW, by the time I was 13 I had a porn and sex toy collection stash that put my dad's to shame. When I became an adult, he would even borrow some of my porn movies from me. His favorite was SNOOP DOGG'S DOGGYSTYLE...lol

Justine1993
by on Mar. 27, 2014 at 12:25 AM
Poor kids
Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Mar. 27, 2014 at 12:30 AM
Was he showing them hardcore Internet porn or did he give them a playboy?

It could be anywhere from sexually abusive "grooming" to misguidedly sharing a "rite of passage" with his boys.

At any rate...I'm sorry you're going through this.
TurtleMami
by Member on Mar. 27, 2014 at 2:27 AM

That's horrible. My aunt once came over for the weekend and my parents had to work. Her on and off husband showed up and said he had to use the computer. He started watching porn right in the middle of the living room. I had to get the boys out of there and told my mom as soon as she got home. I can't believe there are multiple douche bags who would do this.

Quoting Anonymous: :( my dad did this when I was younger. He would watch porn and sex chat with women with the door open and didn't care if my brother and I were in the room with him. Do you know the type the boys saw?


pandorasbox669
by Member on Mar. 27, 2014 at 5:24 AM
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So, it's a boys rite of passage to watch porn? Is that right up there w/ boys will be boys statement? What a statement to write off men/boys bad behavior. SMH!

Quoting Anonymous: Was he showing them hardcore Internet porn or did he give them a playboy? It could be anywhere from sexually abusive "grooming" to misguidedly sharing a "rite of passage" with his boys. At any rate...I'm sorry you're going through this.



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