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feeling violated. my guy pulling down my pants while doing dishes

Posted by on Mar. 25, 2014 at 6:31 PM
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Am I wrong in feeling violated?
by on Mar. 25, 2014 at 6:31 PM
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KatLee42513
by on Mar. 25, 2014 at 6:32 PM
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I'd feel the same way
JaeSung
by Bronze Member on Mar. 25, 2014 at 6:34 PM
What really gets me is he did it once before, and I told him to stop.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 25, 2014 at 6:46 PM

Personally, I would be pissed to a extent but not take it so personally. My husband and i play around all the time and i woulda chased him around to house to get back at him. Sorry its bothering you so much :( Lay down the law and sit him down and  tell him how you feel but don't be a bitch. Tell him that you don't like it

JaeSung
by Bronze Member on Mar. 25, 2014 at 6:48 PM
The other time he did it, I told him I don't like it. It obviously did no good. He also makes fun of me just because I have slight ocd. Though he would deny he's doing it. He would just consider it having a bit of fun.
NDADanceMom
by on Mar. 25, 2014 at 6:52 PM
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Violated is a pretty strong word unless others were there or he forced himself on you.
VinVanMom
by Bronze Member on Mar. 25, 2014 at 6:55 PM

He sounds like a twat. 

thefiregoddess
by Bronze Member on Mar. 25, 2014 at 6:55 PM
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Guess I violated df earlier.
I pants him often.
Momofmenagerie
by on Mar. 25, 2014 at 6:58 PM
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No one is responsible or wrong for how they feel.

He's done it twice, he'll do it again. He likes your reaction.

Perhaps turning around and screaming with a knife in your hand, a swift elbow to the gut or balls if necessary followed by, " I'm sorry, I didn't know it was you....but THAT'S why you do not undress a woman without her consent."

I don't put up with anything I deem inappropriate touching.,even from my husband.

However, he's being juvenile and enjoys your reaction, so change the reaction or the bf
Momofmenagerie
by on Mar. 25, 2014 at 7:01 PM
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If ya'll play around like that regularly, then you didn't.

She finds it unfunny and more negative than positive . All in how the relationship dynamic works ;-)

Quoting thefiregoddess: Guess I violated df earlier.
I pants him often.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 25, 2014 at 7:11 PM

Tell him no, in a firm voice so he knows your not joking around. If he won't stop remove yourself and lock the door. 

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