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sexless marriage is now inevitable
26 minutes ago
My dh and I have been together 5 years. The past 2 years have been horrible on our sex life, although it wasn't great before. Well I guess he is just not sexually attracted to me. I had a baby and did gain weight but he treats me like I'm 300lbs and then complains that I'm not confident. He's the only one who makes me feel not confident, other men think I'm beautiful. He won't admit anything is his fault. Apparently I'm supposed to look like I did when I was 17 when he met me, even though he's 30 and balding with ED or low T whatever it is.
I asked for an open marriage today, mostly out of anger but I'm at the point where I feel like I deserve someone who makes me feel good. And I'm obviously not doing it for dh. He doesn't want one and said he'd rather go sexless. We don't want to divorce... we get along in almost every other aspect and have 2 young kids, but I don't see us being together forever. He's says he loves me DESPITE how I look... well I am beautiful and I don't want to be loved DESPITE how I look. I have done everything he's ever asked, given him every part of me and he rejects me. I'm so done fighting him, trying to make him want me. :( just a vent I guess thanks