Today I sent both kids to their room to clean 5 year old doesn't mind. 4 year old always hates it and she ends up coming out 500 times. No big. It's just part of it I had stomach issues and needed to go to the bathroom. As soon as I walk in, almost 4 year old goes into sister room and starts attacking her I could not get up to go see what was going on. When I did get in there both girls were screaming and crying. 5 year old was shaking. She said mommy I don't know why she started hitting me. 3 year old is in time out for a while.
I knew dh would be mad. So I called to tell him before he came in to see it. This would also give him cooling off time before he came home. He's mad at me. Told me I need to watch them better and if they start fighting get in there then not later. I tried to explain to him my delicate situation but he hung up on me.
We see not a violent family. We do not hit. Cleaning is usually not a violent thing the almost 4 year old usually comes out to color or get something to eat or play. She gets a few things done on her own and I help clean the rest. Same w the 5 year old
I'm more upset that hubby gets mad at me like I do something wrong when they tiff or fall. He also does this when he's watching them and they fall or something. He gets mad AT ME.