So lately step children a girl that is 13 and a boy that is 14.. have recently said they do not want to go\be at dad's house? When asked what the reason was the girl said because she had spent the night at a friends house for 2 days in a row and when she asked to go to another friends house dad told her no. The boy said because we never do any thing? Would that be enough to convince a judge to take away visitations? The mother of the children will be pursuing court etc. .