I have an associate who I swear needs a major self esteem boost. She's very pretty, college educated and dumb. Recently she found out she's pregnant by her dead beat b.f. months ago she was very sick and I told her to get checked out. She already has some other health issues. She told me she didn't think she could get pregnant but was taking b.c pills just in case. Well she told me months ago she ran out of b.c pills and could not afford to refill them. I offered to help pay for them, and she declined. Btw she is only a few years older than I am but still lives with her mom in low income housing. Well she's now pregnant and has no car, no place of her own, no job and b.f is living with his grandma. I have tries to help her prepare for the baby. She does not have a clue. I believe she purposely got pregnant to have someone to love. She has suffered from depression and her mom thinks she's bipolar.
Now she is saying no one will help her. I have taken her to the e.r in the middle of the night, brought her food, gave her gas (when she had a car). I want to help but I am tired of hearing "woe is me" every conversation is about all her ailments and "failing health". I am tired of the negative. I have kids and I am married.
Should I continue to help her or leave her alone...just so you know I'm not being mean; her doctors came find anything physically wrong with her other than minor asthma and pregnancy woes. They have even suggested she see a psychologist. What should I do?