So last Tuesday my dad had a minor stroke, I didn't hear from my mom Wensday, or Thursday, I did talk to her Friday for a little bit until my baby woke up and of course needed me. So I told my mom "Hey let me call you back later okay, Noah (my ds) just woke up" she said "Okay!" Later that day (This is last Friday) I was getting ready to go to Zumba with my mil, until I got a text from my dad saying:
"I'm sick, I had a stroke Tuesday, I hope this doesn't waste your important time" Dad
I call my mom, cuz I'm flipping out she didn't answer the first time, so I called her back the first three times I called it went straight to voicemail, until she FINALLY answered I was on the brink of tears I was pissed. I yelled I was like "WHAT THE HELL WAS THAT ALL ABOUT?" She responded "Well whenever I try to talk to you, you either get defensive over something I say, or you have to go cause of the baby, or your just to busy to talk" That right there pissed me off to no end I was like "EXCUSE ME I HAVE A FUCKING LIFE I HAVE A BABY TO TAKE CARE OF, I HAVE MY OWN LIFE TO LIVE. I HAD THE RIGHT TO KNOW WHEN DAD HAD THE STROKE!" Mostly she didn't try to tell me cuz all she did Tuesday was make small talk!! And like I said didn't hear from her Wensday or Thursday.
What ticks me off about this is she used my life as an excuse, I have put up with so much them treating me like crap, making me feel like shit 24/7 stressing me out all the dam time. They would stress me out so much, clumps of hair would start falling out of my head! This situation was the last straw, I am so done with them! I am so tired of this shit. She talked to my older sister all week, last week and didn't tell her shit either! Idk what to do anymore...
Should I just break all contact with them like I'm originally doing?? Or just talk to them again? What would you do if you were going through this? (Knock on wood)