Me and the hubby got into a rather heated argument last night. When I got pregnant with my first son, he let me know that he wanted his kids close together. I told him that we would have to wait and see. Almost two years later, I am unemployed as of a week ago, we STILL live with his dad and he barely helps me take care of the kid we already have.
He tells me last night that he wants me to skip my depo shot appt today and I tell him, very nicely, that I am not ready to have more kids. What does he do? He pouts. That's right, he pouts like a three year old. I end up doing most of the arguing. I CANNOT STAND it when he pouts.
He brings in around $600-$700 a month, we are on foodstamps, my son is on medicaid...how IN THE HELL can we afford another kid right now? Do I want more kids? Yes...but having another one right now is just not finaincally responsible.