To be quite honest, I LOVE having sex with my fiance. We have a fairly healthy sex life. We manage to have sex about 3-4 times a week and I still don't think it's enough. I would be willing to do it every night. We refrain when I'm on my period and it is absolute torture because it seems that this time is when I'm in the mood the most. My fiance tells me that we don't have to have sex as often as we do and that I shouldn't take it so personally when we don't. I used to get really hurt when he'd fall asleep or go to bed early. I don't as much anymore because I've learned to understand that it really isn't personal. He really does get tired. LOL. He's also always making jokes about it and says things like "You're gonna give me a heart attack," or "I'm too old for this, I'm not 22 anymore." He seems to use his age as an excuse quite often. He's 14 years older than me and I'm in my late twenties. I know you're reading this and thinking "she has a problem", but do I really. I don't know if anyone else out there can relate, but I don't think I do. I love not only the feeling of getting great orgasms, but mainly the closeness it causes between us. I love the kissing and the touching and I just love feeling that close and intimate to him that I just can't get enough. I've explained this to him, but he says "we can feel that way without having sex too." Tell me...what do you think???