My DS is 3 and a half. My DD just turned 1 almost two weeks ago. I set out some Cheeto puffs since my son did a good job picking up all of his toys and putting them in the toy box. So I give him a snack bowl and also put about 6 Cheetos in a different bowl for my little girl. My son eats all of his cheetos and goes on about his business, playing and what not. It takes DD a little while longer but she finishes all but a half of a cheeto. She goes on to play as well. A few minutes later she is near the cheeto again, not paying any attention to it, playing and DS sits down next to her with a toy and finally grabs the cheeto. Of course she notices him grab it and lashes out to grab it, all while squealing her high pitch squeal. Of course they don't pay any attention when I tell them to stop fighting and just give me the cheeto. Finally the cheeto breaks and crumbles some. Naturally neither of them are happy with that either. So now they're both whining about it. I get up, take the Cheeto from the both of them, split a banana in half and give it to them. Now they're as quiet as can be. DS is even sharing some of his with DD even though she still has hers.
I swear, sometimes I want to tear all my hair out! Lol