I went to a birthday party today. 2 women, a mother and the grand mother were chain smoking standing right next to all the kids. The mother kept walking by and standing next to my daughter. You could fully smell the smoke. Her kids were coughing consistently. She was pushing her youngest on the swing and he was just hacking and looked so sick. She smoked while she was pushing him. I'm not a judger but I was definitely judging her. You want to harm your kids? Fine but have enough respect to keep the cigarette away from my kid!!! I so wanted to say something but I didn't want to piss the host off. I just kept moving my daughter away.