EXDH has two younger siblings. He has a sister who is 12(C) and a brother who is 9(Z). While we were together his siblings and I became close. So Friday both of the kids spent the night with me. Z had only the clothes on his back and a pair of swim shorts to bring with him because they couldn't find any of his clothes. Z smells like poop, he smells like he pooped his pants. He was throwing fits because he didnt like what was to eat and throwing things when I asked him to rinse his plate off. So anyway later that night I have him take a shower and while he showers I washed his clothes. He couldnt find the soup so he used the shampoo to wash himself, which is fine, but he used the whole entire bottle of shampoo and still smelled like poop. He got poop all over the bathroom and the next day I noticed there were poop marks on his swim shorts that were not there when we left his house. So I wash those too while he wears his other washed clothes.
Today I started to smell pee in my living room, I unfold the fold out bed and one of them had peed on the bed and just folded it back up without telling me. Should I say something to their mom? I dont think I want the kids over again. This is just ridiculous. Sorry if this is hard to read.